Tough (Question) Tuesday Whats haunting you, why is it a blessing

Tough (Question) Tuesday Whats haunting you, why is it a blessing I Saw a Ghost by Stacy Kathryn Holst (I dont mean to boast! Lets head over to the coast!) I really hesitated putting up this question, because I know that it can be a bit too much into therapy-land for this life coach this happy lil blog. But I still felt like its an important one, and belonged here, too. So, I took the original question (Whats haunting you?) added a second part to happify it: Whats haunting you, why is it a blessing? Ill understand if the comments are light this week. If you dont wanna answer this here, publicly, then thats OK. But I encourage you to answer it privately, safely, in a place thatll hold you tight. But do me a favorDont put yourself back in that place. Dont expand on it, or go deep inside the haunting. Limit that piece to 3 sentences, tops, and move it right along. Here, Ill go right now, OK?: Whats haunting me is my failed entrepreneurial endeavors acting and real estate. I keep thinking of the high highs I experienced, following by the periods of crashing and burning. It follows me sometimes through my current life, saying Be careful, it might be beginners luck, it might be lovely amazing then it might all be gone, for no discernible reason. And while I have recently become an optimist (as opposed to a pessimistic optimist/optimistic pessimist) and have stopped waiting for the other shoe to drop, I think this Caution thats haunting me isnt so terrible. It allows me to be, well, cautious (not to be confused with safe), to not take anything for granted, and to enjoy things as they come. Thats absolutely a blessing. OK, your turn! PS If youre here to find out if you won the Great Giveaway of Stacys original Tough (Question) Tuesday art, youve come to the right place! And if your name is Meggy Wang, youve won! Ill be in touch soon, Meggy, with the details!